Barry L. Boughner

December 8, 1938 ~ October 22, 2015
Born in: Franklin, Pennsylvania
Barry Lee Boughner, 76, of Cooperstown, loving husband, father, grandfather, and "silent warrior," passed away peacefully at home into the loving arms of Jesus, his Savior and Lord, after fighting a lengthy illness from Sjogren's Syndrome and peripheral neuropathy, with loving family at his side.Born December 8th, 1938, Barry was the son of the late William Clifford and Jewel Marie Hovis Boughner. He was a 1956 graduate of Rocky Grove High School. On August 21, 1961, Barry married Eileen Marie Kean, who survives.Barry joined the United States Air Force on March 17, 1958. After completion of basic training at Lackland AFB in San Antonio, TX, he completed the Morse Intercept Operator Course at Keesler AFB in Mississippi. Serving as a Morse Systems Operator and later supervisor within the Security Service, Barry served tours of duty at Okinawa, Kelly AFB in Texas, Alaska, Key West, Crete, Taiwan, Germany, Italy, England, and Rickenbacker AFB in Ohio.From 1971 to 1972 he served as an "Airborne Mission Supervisor" completing 128 combat missions in Vietnam. Among the numerous service medals he received were the Distinguished Flying Cross and the Meritorious Service Medal. He retired from the USAF on October 1, 1980. After retiring from the USAF, Barry established Boughner Insurance Services as an insurance broker. Barry loved to share God's word and was currently a member of the Gideons International since September 1985, where he enjoyed distributing Bibles to local hospitals, nursing homes, and other establishments. He was an active member of the Cooperstown Community Church of God and a prior member of the Fellowship Baptist Church while he resided in Columbus, OH from 1978-2004. He held offices of Secretary and Church Membership chairman for several years. Barry was a member of the American Legion, the Air Force Sergeants Association, the Gideons International, and the National Association of Insurance and Financial Advisors.In addition to his wife, Barry is survived by his son, Shawn Lee Boughner, and his wife, Carol A., of Pickerington, OH; his daughter, Pamela Marie Boughner, of Columbus, OH; and his grandson, Riley Joseph Boughner, of Pickerington, OH. He is also survived by his rescued and beloved cat affectionately known as "Tat the Cat."Barry was preceded in death by his parents, and his former beloved pets, Sammy and Benji.Family and friends will be received at the Gardinier Funeral Home, Inc., 1315 Chestnut Street, Franklin, on Sunday, October 25 from 3:00 to 7:00 p.m.Funeral services will be held on Monday, October 26, at 11:00 a.m. at the Cooperstown Community Church of God, 1651 PA 427, Cooperstown, PA 16317, with the Rev. Barry Markle, pastor of the church, officiating. Military honors will be presented by the VETS Honor Guard of Franklin. Interment will be held in Cooperstown Cemetery.The family suggests that memorial donations be made to the Gideons International, PO Box 140800, Nashville, TN, 37214.To send online condolences, flowers, cards, or for further information, family and friends are invited to visit www.gardinierfuneralhome.com.
Eileen I just want you and your family to know that our prayers are with you. Barry was a great husband, father and friend. We know it will be very hard for all of you but God called Barry to come and be with him and feel better. Wish we could be there with you but you know our hearts are there. Love you all! Wyvonne & Frank
Our deepest sympathy are sent with the hope that,as time goes by,cherished memories will help bring you inner peace,and make your loved one,Barry,seem close to you.We will cherish the 3 weeks we had together and the weekly phone calls.Barry was a smart,loving and generous man.He was a mentor to us.Barry had a long struggle along with his wonderful wife Eileen the past few years.But,they always had time for everyone else.I know Barry is at home with our Lord,may he rest in peace.Barry will be dearly missed but never forgotten. Sincerely, Bob and Linda Hovis
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel about your grief in this time of bereavement. To the family of Barry Lee Boughner. Eileen and family, I am sending you my sincere condolences and prayers at the passing of my friend and Rocky Grove School Classmate, Barry. I am so sorry for your loss. May your fondest memories of Barry sustain you at this time, for he is with our Lord, Jesus Christ, where he is safe in the hands of our Lord. Please know my heart is with you at this time of your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you, as you embrace those around you, just know that my arms are wrapped around you during this time of loss.
Yolanda DiMino Sloan * Whittier, California* Former Resident of Rocky Grove, Pennsylvania*
Dear God we ask you from below,
To hear this prayer and even though
You are too busy for one more
Please leave the phone at heaven’s door
Open the line for all to hear
We’ve had a tragedy so near
To all our hearts and souls you see
So bless those who come now to Thee
And give them peace and quietness
And bless them with your tenderness
And be with all of us in grief
For we are floundering on the reef
Of hope and fear and hurt inside
God, be with us at eventide.
*Yolanda DiMino Sloan *
*Whittier, California *
God Bless/RIP, to ALL who served in Vietnam. Thank YOU for your service, Sgt. Boughner…………………. And Semper Fi.
He Will Call
(Job 14:13-15)
Life, like a mist, appears for just a day,
Then disappears tomorrow.
All that we are can quickly fade away,
Replaced with tears and sorrow.
If a man should die, can he live again?
Hear the promise God has made:
He will call; The dead will answer.
They shall live at his command.
For he will have a longing
For the work of his own hand.
So have faith, and do not wonder,
For our God can make us stand.
And we shall live forever,
As the work of his own hand.
Friends of our God, though they may pass away,
Will never be forsaken.
All those asleep who in God’s mem’ry stay,
From death he will awaken.
Then we’ll come to see all that life can be:
Paradise eternally.
(Hosea 13:14) From the power of the Grave I will redeem them; From death I will recover them. Where are your stings, O Death? Where is your destructiveness, O Grave?
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
My condolences to the family during this difficult time. I am truly sorry for your loss. Please find comfort and hope in God’s promise found at Revelation 21:3,4.