Pamela Rae Tarr
December 3, 1949 ~ April 10, 2020
Born in: Franklin, Pennsylvania
Pamela Rae Tarr, 70, of Franklin, died to go with her Savior on Friday, April 10, 2020 at UPMC NW in Seneca surrounded by her loving family.Born December 3, 1949 in Franklin, Pam was the daughter of Raymond Sylvester and Aletha McChesney Snow , who proceeded her in death.Pamela grew up in Franklin and attended Franklin Junior-Senior High School and graduated with the Class of 1968.She married her current husband, Charles R. Tarr, on August 26, 1972 at the East Grove United Methodist Church. They were married a happy and wonderful 47 plus years of marriage. Pamela worked as a waitress for the Idlewood Restaurant. She also worked as a sales clerk at Virginia Morse Clothing, the Fashion Clothing Store and Robert Mooney Jewelry. She then worked part-time at K-Mart in Sugarcreek Borough and Wigton Chiropractic in Franklin.She lived most of her life in the Franklin Area until 1990 when she and her family moved to Fort Worth, Texas, due to her husband's military career. After several moves, she and her family returned to Franklin where they currently made their home.Pam was a member of VFW Post 1835 Ladies Auxiliary, Oil City Eastern Star Morris Chapter 14, and the East Grove United Methodist Church.In addition to her husband, Pamela is survived by her son, Fredy Finch III and his wife, Tammy, of Milton, FL; her daughter, Tiffany Rae Tarr, of Franklin; and her son, Major Robert A. Tarr II and his wife, Lynsi, of Harrisville. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Tailor Rae Ditzenberger, Hunter Briann Ditzenberger, Emaleigh Birdie Tarr, Nikcole and Kenny Lancaster, Kyle and Caleb Siegwarth; and her great-grandchildren, Jaden and Peyton Mack, and Layla Carruthers.She is also survived by her brother, Fred Snow and his wife, Judi, of Lady Lake, FL.Due to the COVID-19 Pandemic, services for Pamela will be private. If you are unable to attend, we ask that you keep her family in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Gardinier Funeral Home, Inc. will be 'live streaming' services for Pamela on the Gardinier Funeral Home Inc. Facebook page on Friday, April 17th for those unable to attend. To watch, please visit https://www.facebook.com/gardinierfuneralhome and "like" this page to receive a notification when the services begin.A 'Celebration of Life' Service for Pam will be held at a later date at the convenience of her family.The family suggest that memorial contributions be made to the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation - www.komen.org ; the V.E.T.S. Honor Guard - PO Box 137, Franklin PA 16323; or Tunnels to Towers Foundation - 2361 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, NY 10306.To send flowers, cards or online condolences, family and friends are invited to visit www.gardinierfuneralhome.com.








I always enjoyed sitting with Pam during the boys basketball games at RGHS. As her twin granddaughters Hunter and Tailor were cheerleaders along with my daughter. We always had a blast yelling at the refs and laughing about many different things. My heart goes out to to Pam’s family. Thank you Pam for sharing your stories and being such a great friend. Love you and I will miss you dearly rest in peace my friend. Prayers for family and friends may you all find some peace comfort and strength and know that Pam is always with you. Love to you all
I worked with Pam at Kmart many years ago. She was so sweet and always cheerful. We had many good laughs together while working. She had also worked for my grandfather, Robert Mooney. My condolences to her family.
Pam was a wonderful woman. Enjoyed so much chatting with her on Facebook and when came to Nells Crafts. She will be greatly missed. Jane Harmon
My family knew Pam,Charlie & her parents for many years. She was such a sweet & kind person. She always had a smile on her face. My Deepest Condolences to her family.
I’m so sorry for this families loss of such a sweet person. Pam and Charlie lived next door to our family when I was a child. We had a great little neighborhood. My mom also sends her love, hugs and prayers. I am just so sad for all of you. Love you?? Gayle Smith and Bernadette French
Pam and I were first cousins. We grew up together. She was always smiling and always fun to be around. She will be missed. God rest her soul .
Chief, Tiffany, BJ & Fred..Saddened to hear of Pam’s passing; may the strength of friends and family comfort you in this time of sorrow. The world lost a courageous & beautiful lady. You all will be in my thoughts & prayers. ????
Pam was a wonderful person, God bless Charlie and family! ????
We are shocked and saddened to learn of Pam’s passing. She was such a wonderful, kind person, and our thoughts and prayers are with Charlie and her family at this very difficult time. Tammy & Paul Bell
Charlie and family, Rita and I are very sorry to hear about Pam’s passing. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Deepest condolences to all the family I’m going to miss this spunky woman no wonder we thought alike Will miss her laughter Fly high and keep watch over your awesome family Love to all Bernice & Jim Wray
I think of total happiness and her love for family when I remember Pam. God bless her and her spirit will live with us all.
Sorry for your lost me and my Girlfriend wants to saying sorry for your lost . Now she not have no more pain . She watched over the heavens. Going Bye . She is a very good person lady . She make people happy and laugh all the Times.
So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing, she was truly a very special lady, always smiling and so cheerful, she will truly be missed by all! Prayers for the family, Larry and Barb Finch
For the family lot Pam Tarr
Pam was a wonderful lady always had a smile on her face she would bring in the best sweets to us county workers had a heart of gold rest in peace Pam Pat Henderson
I will miss this lovely sweet woman, her smiling face, loving wife, mother, mimi, sister, cuz. She was a ray of sunshine to all who knew her & will be greatly missed. Heaven just gained another beautiful angel
Sorry for your lose she was like a mom to me when i worked at Kmart prayer to the family she will be miss ????
Charlie and family my prayers are with you all. Pam was a lovely lady whose smile warmed the soul. I remember her and I joking about sending Charlie for Starbucks coffee!
So sorry to hear Pam passed, in these trying times it is hard to comprehend, she was always spunky and had a smile for everyone, I will miss that smile, God bless her and be with your family. Sally Vogus
I am very sorry for your loss
Charlie and family, I am so sorry. I always enjoyed talking with Pam. She was warm, friendly and loved her family. The Army can be hard on a spouse, but, she followed you everywhere.
Just as Jesus mourned when His friend Lazarus died, know that He mourns with you. Through every tear you shed and every sorrow you experience, He is with you, offering His comfort. And just as Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, so shall He also raise Pam to eternal life. With deepest sorrow, Valerie & Karl
Wispy blonde hair, twinkling blue eyes,rosy cheeks and a beautiful smile. That’s my friend, Pam. She loved her family more than anything in the world. We had so much fun working at Kmart and I considered Pam as a dear friend. I will miss you. Prayers for Charlie and Tiffany and family. RIP Pam.
sorry for you’re loss
My Prayers and condolences to the family of Pam Tarr…. No words to express this loss, one of the most beautiful, kindest and loving person I have ever had the pleasure to meet… God bless Pam and her beautiful family… Sincerely, Gene Price
So sorry for your loss. Praying for your family.
Dear Charlie, (Chief) I wanted to extend my sympathies to you and your family at this difficult time. What a loyal partner Pam has been. What a difficult final salute. Even though we all will go on, there will be a VOID now. Sincerely. Jim Knarr
Dear Fred and family, so sorry for your loss, but your loss is Heaven”s gain. She was an awesome, beautiful Christian lady….My thoughts and prayers are with your all……I will always think of her amazing smile…..Edie Dean
We send our thoughts and prayers to the Tarr family.May God be with you all to help comfort you at this unfortunate time.Pam was such a wonderful loving person to all.Sure do miss her little chats and jokes.
Charlie, it is with a heavy heart that I extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Pam was beautiful inside and out. I remember years ago when the four of us went out on the bikes. She will be missed by so many whose lives she’s touched.
Charlie and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. The loss of Pam is devastating. Pam was always smiling and happy. She will be messed by everyone. She is in heaven with her parents now.
Charlie, I am at a loss for words, Pam was a wonderful person, always smiling , loved her family and friends more the life it’s self… prayers are with you and your family….
Dear Charles and family, Our deepest sympathy in your loss. Although I never met Pam, I felt I knew her. Your mom told me how much she liked her when you first married her. May your faith, and the love and support of family and friends sustain you at this most difficult time. Blessings, prayers and love, Helen and Ron Russell