Storm M. Fox
November 17, 1978 ~ June 17, 2011
Born in:
meadville, PA
Resided in:
Erie, PA
On Friday June 17, 2011, the light of our lives was unexpectedly taken from us. Storm M. Fox passed away at UPMC Hamot in Erie due to injuries sustained in a motor vehicle accident. Storm was a wonderful human being and a perfectly beautiful soul. He touched the lives of so many and the pain of this loss is devastating to all who knew his laugh, his smile, and his wit.
Born on November 17, 1978 in Meadville, Storm was the son of Brenda Pardee and Ed Fox. On August 10, 2002, he married the love of his life Christa (Greig) Fox, she survives.
Storm was a 1997 graduate of MASH. He attended Edinboro University where he earned a Bachelors degree in Sociology and later completed a Master of Arts degree in Social Sciences.
Storm was employed as a Mobile Therapist/ Behavior Specialist Consultant by Touch-Stone Solutions, Inc., a job he loved and excelled at due to his compassion and natural ability to help others. He will be missed by his colleagues and the children and families with whom he has spent so much time. Prior to working for Touch-Stone, Storm was employed at Meadville Farm and Garden, where he enjoyed the physical labor as much as working with the people who came into the store.
Storm was a devoted husband, son, and brother. His hero was his Papa, Ernest Pardee. Storm deeply admired Papa and strove to be like him. Storm succeeded and made the world a brighter place with his optimism, sense of humor, and an endless capacity to love. Storm’s wit and intelligence were matched only by the size of his heart. He loved nothing more than spending time with his wife and beautiful German Shepherd, Sammy. Storm was always willing to help someone in need. Even though he is gone, his generous spirit provides for others through organ and tissue donation. Above all Storm was a true friend. He wore his heart on his sleeve and never missed an opportunity to let others know how much they meant to him.
Storm had a curiosity that was both unlimited and infectious. He was the frontman for Fogo Jr, a staple of the local punk scene for a number of years. Storm loved to be barefoot in unusual places and was always up for a physical challenge. He was especially fond of kettle bells and sharp objects. His preparations for the zombie apocalypse were thorough and may one day save us all. Storm was unapologetically himself and we are all better for having known him.
To know Storm was to love him. He brought so much color into our lives. Our world has become black and white. Most people have lived half as much after living three times as long. He is gone way too soon and we are heartbroken.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Christa Fox of Conneautville; parents Ed Fox of Franklin and Brenda Pardee of Meadville; sister Gaia Fox of Pittsburgh; grandfather Ernest Pardee of Oceano, CA; aunt Beth Pardee and uncle Chuck Niles of Port Charlotte, FL; great-aunt Janet Warden of Meadville; and best friend Matthew Rappa of Pittsburgh. He is also survived by his niece and nephews, Luna, Ayden, and Xavier, and a large, loving, extended family.
Storm was preceded in death by his grandmother Barbara Pardee and his mentor Dr. Frank O. Taylor IV.
Visitation will be Friday, June 24, 2011 from 4 pm to 7 pm at Roofner-Collins-Warren Funeral Home and Cremation Services, Inc., 544 Chestnut Street, Meadville.
Additional visitation will be Saturday, June 25, 2011 from 12 pm to 2 pm at the funeral home with a memorial service to follow at 2 pm.
Please visit Storm’s book of memories at www.roofnercollinswarrenfh.com
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Christa I am sorry for you and your families loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. If you ever need anything do not hesitate to ask.
Christa, there are no words that truly convey how wonderful Storm was and the huge hole that his death creates. Even though I didn’t know him too well I was always happy and thrilled to run into him because he was so fun and great to chat with. As I was walking away each time I would think about what he said and chuckle to myself while thinking I should give you two a call sometime because you both are such amazing people. I’m so sorry for your loss of Storm – I wish there was a way I could bring him back for you. Remembering his love of life and thinking back to his posts on facebook make me want to strive to be a better person and more like him. Grabbing life and the people around me and living it full force. One other thing that I always thought was great was that he NEVER said anything but wonderful things about you. I could tell how much he loved you in the way he said your name and the things he said about you. I hope that you find peace and some form of healing with time.
Leslie Mead
With heart felt sympathy!
I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Storm well, but we graduated together and I remember how great of a person he was. He will be greatly missed.
Christa,
I was so saddened by this news. I know that there are no words that can offer you comfort at this time, but know that you are in my prayers. My heart truly goes out to you.
I graduated with Storm and remember what a nice guy he was. Always could put a smile on your face no matter how bad your day was. I will miss seeing him at the store. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Storm was always the nicest guy and anytime we crossed paths he brought a smile to my face. He will be missed beyond words. I am sorry for your loss.
Storm was a dear friend to my son, Mike, who was also a member of Fogo,Jr. I remember the many band practices in our basement in Autumn Hills, and also driving to Storm’s “practice room.” Along with Matt Rappa, the boys had many, many good times together. I especially remember that Storm always had a smile and was never, ever, in a bad mood. Storm had a special kind of insight which was uncanny. He could be very professional and precocious, yet mischievous and fun-loving, when the time was appropriate. He brought much laughter and liveliness to their youthful days. When I met his wife for the first time, I realized I had been Christa’s teacher at SHS. What a beautiful couple! Our loving prayers go to you, Christa, and to Brenda and Gaia. He will be forever smiling down on all of you.
My Condolences to Storm’s family and friends. We have all lost a surrogate brother with the warmest of hearts this year.
Crista,Brenda and Ed, I was deeply saddened to hear of Storm’s passing. Sometimes no matter how much faith we have we lose people. He was unique and wonderful man.He loved you very much Crista. He will never be forgotten and sometimes its the memories that give us the strengh to go on.
When I saw Storm’s picture in his obituary this morning in the Tribune, my heart sank. I knew him from being a customer at Meadville Farm and Garden. He was the nicest guy and we always had the best of conversations! I am so sorry for your loss. My God comfort your hearts.
Sincerely,
Kay Bossard
I am so sorry to hear of Storms death. I have known his dad, Ed, his maternal Grandma Ruth Fox and his Aunt Karen Lipps ,Ed’s sister, all my life. I’m so sorry for your loss.Storm was a sweet guy always had a smile! RIP STORM!!
So, Storm, you took your last breath close to where you took your first.
Isn’t that just like you, to complete the circle of life on earth so harmoniously.
But why’d you have to do it so soon, Storm?
Why couldn’t you stick around much longer in the Commonwealth
where you have a friend in Pennsylvania, Storm?
In fact, you have tons of friends in PA, Storm.
And we, like your beloved family, are all heart-broken at your sudden stormy flight.
Stupid phrase, I know. Shouldn’t come right after a serious word.
But there are lots of things that shouldn’t be, right Storm?
After all, your spoke and wrote about them for years.
Poverty shouldn’t be. Neither should cruelty, abuse, neglect, injustice or exploitation.
And especially not war, that definitely should not be, something you, gentle warrior, fought against all your life.
But war is still here, but you are not.
Why not, Storm?
Why couldn’t it be the other way around?
Why’d you have to leave us so soon, Storm?
Stupid question. I know.
You did not have to leave us. You just did.
Accidents happen. They just do.
People get hurt.
People end up in intensive care on life support.
People die.
You did.
And a bit of us died along with you, Storm.
We could all use life support now.
I found some in the music of Mozart, Ave Verum Corpus, that just
mysteriously and magically came through my computer while writing this on summer solstice.
There is a Light that never dies, and you, dear friend and brother,
had that eternal Light shine on, in and through you brilliantly.
(this is a slight variation of what I wrote for his mentor, Frank Taylor, who also died much too soon in a vehicular accident)
I had an archeology class at Edinboro with Storm a few years ago. He was such a kind man a made the time we spent together much richer. I’m so sorry for your loss. He is truly gone too soon.
I had an archeology class at Edinboro with Storm a few years ago. He was such a kind man a made the time we spent together much richer. I’m so sorry for your loss. He is truly gone too soon.
i only knew Storm for a short time but he was a wonderful man. He would bring a smile to your face no matter what kind of day u were having. He will be sadly missed by all that knew and loved him.
Christa, I am so sorry to hear about Storm. I didn’t know him but if he was anything like you, he was a very special person. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Julie Lehman Rosenquest
In my previous condolence…I put Maternal Grandma Ruth Fox…I meant Paternal.Sorry! RIP STORM!!!
My thoughts are with Christa, Gaia, and the rest of his loved ones. Storm was a special guy that really *lived* life, an inspiration for me and others. It is surreal to think such a vivacious man is gone, but the world was lucky to have him while it did.
Storm was a brilliant and hilarious guy. I feel lucky to have known him.
DEAR CHRISTA
OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW. I NEVER GOT THE CHANCE TO MEET YOUR HUSBAND STORM,I KNOW HE MUST HAVE BEEN A GREAT GUY AND YOU WILL MISS HIM VERY MUCH.DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL, BUT LOVE LEAVES A MEMORY NO ONE CAN STEAL.GOD BLESS
JUDY RYMERS
I am so sorry for your loss. I want your family to know you are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
I was saddened to hear about Storm’s accident. My name is Michelle Cybulski and I was one of Storm’s preschool teachers at the Meadville Cooperative Preschool. My most vivid memory of Storm is the time we were all sitting on the carpet chatting away and Storm raised his hand to make the announcement “Did you know that horny toads live in Arizona”. All the children immediately stopped to listen to Storm and his talk about the horny toad. I haven’t seen Storm since preschool but it sounds like he still had this wonderful nurturing gift. He will be missed and please accept my sympathies. Fondly, Michelle Cybulski
My heart goes out to the family for their loss. Storm was a student of my husband, Dr. Frank O. Taylor, IV, and my husband spoke very highly of Storm. He always made a point to say hello when we crossed paths. He was always smiling. It is heartbreaking. I understand your pain. Find comfort in family, friends and memories. Storm will forever be in our hearts.
want to extend mi condolences to storm’s family and wife I’m soo sorry for your loss!
I’m so sorry for your loss Christa May God wrap his arms around you and your families.R.I.P. Storm God Bless
I am so sorry for your loss. Storm you truly were a great person. In high school you were always such a positive person to be around. You always made people feel better when they were down. It’s such a shame you were taken so soon. Your life had only just begun 33 short years earlier. You truly were a great person and you will be missed more than you could have imagined. My thoughts are with the family and friends of Storm, may they recover from this tragic loss and be able to remember the great person you were, and hold on to the memories of you.
there never was, and never will be anyone like storm. he was truly genuine, he never knew how to be anything else. he’s one of the only people i have ever met that never seemed stressed or phased by the things most people spend their time thinking about. he was unique in ways that people have yet to discover. i am so sorry to all of the people who have lost him, and even more sorry to the people who never got a chance to meet him. it’s a horrible shame to lose him at such a young age, but i can’t blame the beautiful place he is going for not being able to wait. my deepest condolences to his family and friends for losing such an amazing person. and as for you, storm, wherever you are, don’t ever stop being you.
Christa, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I never knew Storm but if you picked him, he must have been a swell guy. I know the hurt you must feel right now, I also lost someone dear to me. But the hurt will subside and the thought that he has gone to a better place will make it more bearable.
God bless.
Ken & Teri Collins
Christa, Brenda, Ed, Gaia, and all that knew Storm, It is with much sorrow that we give our condolences. We had the privilege sharing many good times with Storm. His character was something we learned from, he was the best a person can be and he will never be forgotten. We cannot understand why he was taken from this world but there’s no doubt the Creator has a special place for him. Somehow it doesn’t seem like we can write enough but understand that our hearts are truly with you. Love, Swany & Allison
My heart could not be more broken for you Christa, Brenda, Gaia, Beth, Ed, Ernie,Frank, and all of Storms Family and friends. What a beautiful human being Storm was. Although we had only gotten to know each other briefly,I had heard so many affectionate stories, from Barbra, and you Ernie… I know that he is very loved… by all, and judging from the warm glow, that was always surrounding him,…he knew…that he was loved. My deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you… April
Dear Brenda,
You have been in my thoughts and prayers; I am holding Storm and you in my love. You have so many who love you near and far. Now is the time to let them love you to the full, as I know you will.
Words are so inadequate at such moments, so I will not indulge their futility further. All my love–Craige
Dearest Brenda and Family – We were so saddened to hear about the sudden loss of your son. We can certainly empathize with you as we recently lost our beautiful niece, Asia. Although we did not know Storm or his family personally, we have always known that our childhood friendship is timeless and not limited to our generation. Please know that you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy and love, Pamela “Death is not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp because dawn has come.” – Rabindranath Tagore
The world lost a truly unique and wonderful man, son, brother, husband and friend when Storm left us.
As others have commented before, Storm was unapologetically Storm, and we all loved him for it. He had such a deep understanding of people, a true gift that very few possess. Few people could have such deep conversations about the human psyche, followed by proper zombie survival discussions, and be an expert on both subjects.
For those that did not have a chance to get to know Storm, I am truly sorry as words can not express what he means to those that did know him.
For those that are fortunate enough to know Storm, cherish the memories. Remember all the laughter. Remember his truly unique view on the world.
I know our world will never be quite the same without him with us, but I’m so very thankful for the time I had with him.
Whenever Storm came into a room he always brightened it up. He was always smiling and always upbeat. He could take a bad situation and always find the good. He was a pleasure to work with all the years he was here at Meadville Farm & Garden. We always enjoyed when he would just stop in to say hi! Storm may have never had any children but the legacy he has left in everyone that he knew is great. He will be greatly missed. Our prayers and sympathy is with his wife and family.
Special people touch the lives of many but for those they dearly love they never truly leave but comfort from the shadows. take acre and treasure those memories
I have known Storm for the last 3 1/2 years and I feel so privledged to have had the experience! He was the most genuine person I have ever met! I have never once seen him in a bad mood, and I dont know how he did it! He had such an impact on so many people! He loved what he did but surely not as much as his dear wife! he talked of her often, I know I have never met you Christa but my heart goes out to you. Just the week before he said exactly “I love my wife to death” i just keep hearing that in my head along with his signature laugh that he did when he was in the office just the morning of that dreadful day.
The friday before, him and Dave did a fantasic job on a training that i took. They made it so upbeat and enjoyable, they were always funny together. I will never forget the Mad Dog Hot Sauce day! He always did things off the wall and was so hilarious! It will never be the same without him! They say the good go young and in this case that is completely true. I dont blame them for wanting him and not being able to wait! He was a great guy and will be truely missed!
I am saddened by the loss of a classmate and friend. It seems as though we were always bumping into each other on our shopping sprees… Big Lots, Wal-Mart.. where have you. You always took the time to stop and chat. Tonight I was at Big Lots and the cashier, another MASH grad actually mentioned you. It made me smile. Storm, you certainly have touched the lives of many. You, nor your smile, intelligence, and fun-loving, silly, yet serious personality, will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace at this early, unfair time. My sympathy to your wife and family. The world has lost someone special.
Storm, it feels kind of odd to be leaving a message here when I think I’m supposed to just be reading them, but you know me, I can never keep my mouth shut. It’s been a week since you left us and instead of getting better, every day without you seems to get worse. I’m not trying to make you feel guilty wherever you are, I just want you to know how much we miss you. As if there’s any way you don’t already. I go back and forth between complete misery and just feeling like the luckiest person ever because I got you for a big brother. You’re as good as it gets when it comes to big brothers. Actually, I’m pretty sure you’re as good as it gets when it comes to people in general. I keep trying to focus on that, how lucky we were to get you at all. I just wish you’d stayed longer. Knowing our inherited tendency to always be late, I can’t believe you ducked out early on us. It’s a shame I can’t give you a pinch anymore like when we were kids because you totally deserve it for this.
I can’t tell you how hard it is to go through something like this without you. I’ve never had to go through anything without you before and I’m clueless as to how to go about it. I almost called you yesterday out of habit. It broke my heart a second later when I realized you wouldn’t be picking up. I’d give anything to be able to talk to you again, to hang out and watch cartoons or play frisbee with you and Sammy (even if I always lose, which is surprising because not many people know it’s possible to lose at frisbee).
I hope you can somehow feel all the love people are sending you and how much you’re missed. There aren’t words for it. Thank you for being my brother, for always listening when I needed someone, for always being there to carry insanely heavy things, for never being cruel or judgmental, for every single time you made me laugh, for always holding my hand when we were little and I needed my big brother to keep me steady. Can’t tell you how much I wish you were here to do it now, but most importantly, thank you just for being you. I’d give anything to have you back. Anything. Everything. I’m trying not to be so angry you’re gone, but with what you brought to the world, I don’t see how I can feel any other way. More than anything though, I just miss you. I love you, big brother. I’m never, ever going to stop wishing you were still here. We were supposed to get old and crotchety together and sit on our front porches complaining about “kids today.” It won’t be the same without you there (to tell the cops the kids are lying and I never hit anybody with my cane). Maybe Christa will join me instead. I can’t wait to see you again someday. I have no idea what happens when people die, but if it doesn’t involve us getting to hang out and watch Terminator 2 or Shaun of the Dead, I’m going to write a strongly worded letter to my congressman. Love you, Stormy.
Storm, it was a pleasure for us to work with you at Meadville Farm & Garden!!! You made everyday a new adventure, you were amazing with the customers and always had a smile on your face, even if it was down pouring rain and you had to go load a big load or load a Christmas tree in a blizzard you still did it, because you loved your customers!!! We will never forget the memories you left us or the great stories you had, I know Nikki, David, and Zack all learned life lessons from you and they thank you for that! Also Joel and Donna loved and treated you like you were there own son they loved you Storm!! And we can’t forget the girls up stairs they always loved your stories, you always made them laugh!! We at Meadville Farm & Garden just want to say we are so sorry for the loss of a great friend, our prayers go out to the whole family! Storm until we meet again R.I.P!
We can’t even imagine the terrible pain of the loss of such a young loved one that you are experiencing. We knew Storm incidentally for years. Years ago, our son’s band The Twirpentines played their first show at Storm’s house with Storm and his band Fogo Jr., when the Meadville punk rock scene was in its infancy. We also occasionally saw Storm at work at Meadville Farm and Garden or at Meadville Area Senior High School. He was always friendly, upbeat, and a pleasure to be around, and his loss will leave a huge void in many lives. We hope his cherished memory will help provide his family and loved ones comfort in such a devastating time.
I never thought that I would ever meet someone that was so happy go lucky, full of life, and just wonderful to be in the presence of as Storm Fox…Words can’t even begin to describe what an honor it was to know you. Every time I saw your smiling face in the office, I knew that my day was going to take a turn for the better. You were such a thoughtful, caring and compassionate person. I always thought Christa to be so lucky to have such an amazing guy for a husband. Twice over the past two years he came to me asking advice on the perfect gift to buy for Christa. I was more than happy to help him purchase both the Chi and the Zune that he got for her on those two occasions. Just seeing his joy at getting her the perfect gift let me know how perfect they were for one another. I will forever miss him coming into my office asking for random advice on things from the appropriate attire to wear to the airport to minimize TSA scrutiny to how I thought his homemade Kim Chi tasted. Though your time on earth was short my friend, your presence will be felt for a long time. Christa, my heart aches for you! To Storm’s parents and sister, thank you for sharing this wonderful man with us. He made our lives brighter.
My sincere condolences to Storm’s family. I will dearly miss him both as a former student and a good friend. Storm brought light and optimisim in many people’s lives and the memory of his gentle soul, powerful intellect, and infectious smile will live forever.
Christa, Gaia, Brenda and Ed, I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
My heart is saddened to hear of the loss of a fellow school mate and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with Storm and his family! His spirit will shine down on us and he will always be remembered.
My condolences to all that loved Storm. Our lives have overlapped for nearly twenty years. I never realized how much overlap until this week – junior high, high school, college, the department of sociology & even wrap services in Meadville.
Storm truly is a bright light in all of our lives. We are all better for having known him and may all that he is and was shine through in us everyday.
When our hearts stop to beat it is our legacy in others that lives on, you will live for eternity in the lives you have touched.
Rest in peace, my friend.
To the family of Storm Fox. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss. Went to school with Ed. Got to know Storm when he worked at the feed mill. He was a wonderful person. Always willing to help with heavy purchases. He dated my room mates niece Erika & she has nothing but nice things to say about Storm. God Bless.
Our Great Creator gave us Storm, a remarkable, wonderfully generous, gifted loving young man. He touched the lives and hearts of all who knew him. When tragedy entered my life, Storm was right there each morning making sure my day was off to a great start with his big smile, his thoughtfulness, and his witty jokes. The unusual wind chimes that Storm said sang in the breeze like happy laughter were presented to me because their singing would cheer the heart. Those chimes have a place of honor in our home, and when a breeze sends their laughter my way Storm’s big happy smile will always come to mind. Pages could be filled with all the memories Storm has left us with; his legendary culinary creations, his joy at living life, the love he gave to all, his amazing love for Christa – the Love of his life and his gentle soul. When he moved forward in life to new adventures, he was very much missed at Meadville Farm & Garden. Our Creator has gathered Storm back to Himself for reasons we cannot understand, and words cannot be found to express how much he will be missed. Storm left us with a rich legacy to pay forward. My prayers and deep sympathy to Christa, his family and to all who loved him.
I’m sorry to hear Storm passed away. My condolences to his family and close friends. I remember Storm’s unique sense of humor in high school. He was a good soul who will be missed!