Richard G. Eshelman

June 2, 1930 ~ August 26, 2020
Born in: Franklin, Pennsylvania
With a playful charm and a twinkle in his eye, Richard “Dick” Geiger Eshelman lived and loved for 90 years. A 3rd generation Franklinite, Dick was born on June 2, 1930. After graduating from the Franklin Area schools, he left for college at Bucknell where he earned a BS in Biology ‘52 and then went on to the Pennsylvania College of Optometry. When he returned home in 1956, he had his doctorate in optometry, a fiancée, and was ready to settle down in Franklin. He opened his practice on the 3rd floor of the Biery Building, a floor above his father’s dental practice, where he cared for and collected jokes from his beloved patients for 38 years. That same year, he married Miriam “Del” Breish of Philadelphia, who was by his side for 63 happy years, savoring time together with their three children – Tom (Debra), Mindy and Andrew (Kaylene) – and six grandchildren (Matt and Caitlin Eshelman, Sophia and Rena Stokes and Jacob and Emeline Eshelman). Dick grew up in a house filled with music. His father, Tom, played the violin while his mother, Rena, was the organist at the First United Methodist Church, where Dick remained an active member. He started on the violin at 5, piano at 7, and at 11, his parents bought him a flute. “Best thing they ever did for me,” he would often say. At 15, Dick began riding his bike to practice with the Silver Cornet Band. Last season marked his 75th year with that band, making him, quite possibly, the oldest member of the oldest volunteer band in the United States. He played in various other bands and musical groups, including 7 times in the 40&8 National Champion Band, locally in the pit for over 45 musicals, at church, weddings, funerals, and, most recently, in “The Messiah” just this past December. His love of music and the comradery with his fellow musicians resulted in countless hilarious and sometimes questionable stories he loved to share. He was fond of saying in his later years, “so much music, so little time”. Dick would always say, “I picked right.” in referring to Del, who was the love of his life and supported his various endeavors, no matter where he saw he could make a difference, especially for his family and his beloved Franklin. He volunteered countless hours to better his community. He served as president of the YMCA during the building campaign, which resulted in the Y’s current location on Otter Street. He was a dedicated and active member in Kiwanis for 64 years including 40 plus years of perfect attendance. In 1975 he was honored as Kiwanian of the Year. He spent numerous years as cub master and scoutmaster, a swim referee, volunteering for Meals on Wheels, and for other organizations. He was president, officer, and/or board member of Kiwanis, YMCA, Northwestern Optometric Association, Franklin Fine Arts Council, First United Methodist Church, and DeBence, where he remained a docent until this year. In 2000, he and Del were honored as Man and Woman of the Year in Franklin, in part for founding and running “The Oil Country Opera Guild”, where they educated and took locals via “the Opera Bus” to Pittsburgh for a night of opera. He also was a member of Sigma Alpha Epsilon, Phi Mu Alpha, the Masonic Myrtle Lodge 316, and the Zem Zem. Dick loved to make things from pies to wine, redwood canoes to decks, you name it, he was figuring it out. An avid fan of the Pens, Steelers, Pirates, and Knights, an animal lover and rescuer of many a stray. Dick filled the rest of his time with music, vacationing at his favorite spot, Van Buren Bay on Lake Erie, crosswords, and NCIS. He held “his family,” whether biological or not, close to his bionic heart, laughing and telling jokes of sometimes inappropriate character. Accomplished, passionate, devoted, a treasure to all who had the pleasure of sharing a tale or a tune, he is and was what every man wants to be: remembered and loved. Preceded in death and receiving him now are his parents: Thomas and Rena, brothers Tommy and John along with many dear friends.A celebration of Dick’s life will be held on Sunday, August 30 at 2:30 pm at the First United Methodist Church, Liberty Street, Franklin, PA. Social distancing will be observed.In lieu of flowers, tell a joke so someone laughs out loud and if you would like to contribute to one of his favorites: Silver Cornet Band, 430 13th Street, Franklin, PA 16323; DeBence Antique Music World, 1621 Liberty Street, Franklin, PA 16323; and/or to the Franklin First United Methodist Church, 1102 Liberty Street, Franklin, PA 16323. His bionic heart has stopped, but he continues to live in the hearts of all of those who were so lucky to know him. Funeral arrangements were entrusted to Gardinier Funeral Home, Inc., 1315 Chestnut Street, Franklin, PA 16323.To send cards, online condolences, or for further information, family and friends are invited to visit www.gardinierfuneralhome.com.
I never met Mr Eschelman. My husband did. But I do have the great honor of being acquainted with his son Tom. And if Tom is anything like his dad, then Mr Eschelman was probably a pretty great guy and will be missed. RIP Mr Eschelman. Say “hi” to my husband and give him a hug from me and the kids.
Dearest Mindy, I was so saddened to hear this news. Please know you are on my heart and in my thoughts. Totally empathize. While it is the cycle of life it still isn’t easy when someone leaves us. Take the time you need to grieve, honor and rejoice about your dad. An amazing man to have in you life. And he will always be with you. Sending prayers and loving comfort to you, your children and family. Judy Conte
Doc is one of those people with whom I’ve been blessed to meet and be friends with in my life and one of the reason I’m glad we moved to Franklin. I actually knew and was friends with him before meeting and becoming friends with the rest of his family. Dick and Del would include my kids in their ‘extra’ Halloween candy packs they made for their own grandkids and had them ready when we arrived at their door every year. Doc would come to band practice and tell me stories of his grandkids… mostly about swimming which I always found amusing because I was usually at that same swim meet because my kids were on the same swim team! He was very proud of his grandkids and always there to watch, whether it be a swim meet, track meet, hockey game, or gymnastics. He enjoyed telling me and the rest of the first flutes ‘colorful’ jokes that were not always family-appropriate but we loved him all the more for it. He was a fantastic man who lived a life of full of family, friends, music, and faith. I will most certainly miss him for many years to come and am privileged to have been able to call him my friend.
Dear Del, Mindy, Sophia, Rena and all the family, we are keeping you close in our hearts. Wishing you comfort at this very sad time. The Tolentinos
Sending lots of love to all the Eshelman’s. He was a special man. And a lot of my childhood memories include wonderful times with all of you. He had such funny stories and a great love of life. God bless.
Too many to share! We loved going to the lake every labor day. He and Del rescued us Robbins girls numerous times, and loved us well!!
How the obituary captured the man I knew and was a friend of for so many years. He truly was one of a kind…. there will be no other Dick Eshelman! He had such a musical talent and was such a resource of information on many subjects. There were many times that I reddened with his jokes, but that was Dick. I have wonderful memories of our ski trips and learning to ski together. He played the flute for my 70th birthday and I will cherish that memory. I am sure that Bart was waiting with Katy, Kirk, and the many that have gone before. I will miss you very much. Thank you for enriching my life. Dee
To the Eshelman family, Mindy, Sophie & Rena: Know that the students, staff and faculty of the Costume Area are sending you our heartfelt condolences
Dr Eshelman was the only optometrist I saw till he retired. I always looked forward to my eye appointments, his jokes and bow ties. He was a delightful man to know. May your memories brighten your days and bring a smile each time you think of him. My sincerest condolences.
I never met the man, but I did assist in training and mentoring his son Andrew when he entered the Pharmaceutical business. It is obvious that acorns really don’t fall far from the tree. All we really are is a mind filled with memories. Not all of us are fortunate enough to share such wonderful ones as the Eshelman’s! Carry on. It sounds like that is what Dr Eshelman would expect.
To Del and family, We will never hear ” Stars and Stripes Forever” withut hearing his fife. He will be greatly missed in Franklin and beyond
My deepest sympathies to the Eshelman family. My thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. I am certain that Dr Eshelman and my dad George will once again be involved in another project to service their community.
Dear Del and Family, we are keeping you close in our hearts. Wishing you comfort at this very sad time. The Cummings
Doc was often like a second dad to me, in scouting and family camp, band, and so many get-togethers and visits. He taught me how to find the planets and stars, as well as some of the funniest, least appropriate jokes I have ever heard. He cared, and I will miss him.
To the Eshelman family, I’m so sorry for your loss of your husband, father, grandfather, all I can say about Dick was that he was one of our first cardiac rehab clients at the Franklin Y and he hated exercise but he came faithfully for quite a while and then later on he came back every once in a while but I will tell you this every time we walked into the fitness center he lit up the place with his humor and stories! He will be truly missed!
Mindy, we’re very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family. You are greatly respected in the School and we send you our love and support.
Family and Friends of Richard “Dick” G. Eshelman, May God comfort and support you in the time of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Dick was a dear friend and wonderful servant to the community of Franklin. His dedication to the various community affairs was unequivical. As a fellow Kiwanian I often heard him exclaim how he desired to be active in an organization that actually did something for the community. He was committed to the effort to participate joyfully in his service to our community. We have witnessed the blessing of his musical talents in many scenarios. The Silver Cornet Band concerts in the park and participation in the Christmas Cantata at Christ Church stand out for our family. He loved his family, he loved Franklin and he loved his alma mater Bucknell University. His legacy will continue through the lives of his wife, his children and grandchildren. How blessed we are who personally spent time with this wonderful man. Our love and prayers are with Del, Mindy, Tom, Andrew and all the family members. His love and support of family and friends was unconditional. “Let not your heart be troubled; ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many mansions. If it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.” John 14: 1 -3 May God Bless and Keep You, Lou, Susan and Bethany Slautterback
Doc was probably the first “cool” adult I ever got to be around. He was a great father, professional, neighbor and my own father’s best friend. The two of them together again, only makes me smile. He also, on a trip to close up the cottage, told me my first off-color joke by an “adult”, and taught me how to properly light a cigar. And a skill I personally found useful-how to fill a beer glass from a keg! I will miss your smile, your sense of humor, and your friendship. Doc and George together again, I love it!
We will miss our great summer neighbor!! His humor and friendliness will be missed. The Centner’s
To the Eshelman family, so sorry for your loss. Doc was always someone you looked forward to seeing. He would greet you with a big smile and then precede right into telling you a joke which would always make one laugh. He will always be remembered fondly by his friends and community.
Tom, it’s been years since we’ve had the the chance to connect; however, no matter the time,I feel for your loss and and my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Andrew & Family, Our deepest condolences to you and your family during this time.
My heartfelt condolences to Mrs Eshelman from a former resident & member of the First Unite Methodist Church in Franklin PA. Dick is now with the Angels of Heaven band & his flute on Christmas Eve Service in the BLEAK MID WINTER… Every Christmas since I moved from Franklin some 24 years ago… I still hum & hear him playing that hymn & I think of him & you & how kind your were to me…. Dennis Ellis -Wescoat..
For the Eshelman Family- in memory of Richard “Dick” Eshelman.- With love & deepest sympathy from the CMU School of Drama Leadership, Faculty & Staff.